Thinking of getting married? Do you know the exact rationale behind this decision? It is very important to be mentally prepared before going into marriage. Often couples wonder after marriage why they married in the first place.

They sometimes find themselves unready for the realities of the responsibilities that are a part of marriage which can result in a bad start for a family, and disillusionment further into the relationship. Muslim singles should be fully aware of, and accepting of the responsibilities of whatever role they are going to play in the marital relationship. Talk to your elders, friends, spiritual leaders, or anyone already married and he or she can give your some very good advice to help in making a good decision. In some cultures the parents are the primary decision makers in this process.  If the decision is being made by your parents or other family members, talk to them and share your fears or apprehensions. Keep in mind that it is your own decision that matters most, so be frank with you parents and discuss your expectations for marriage, and desire to or not to be married. There is nothing to be afraid of, but having a clear mindset will, Insha’Allah, help you in the long run.

 

by: Ecosmos