Asalaamu Alaikum brother,

This is a complaint that I have heard a few times.  Though I know it must be frustrating for you, you must understand that many Muslim women are reluctant to relocate with a new husband. 

Most Muslim courtships are short at best, so there is always a fear that things may not work out.  In the case that things do no t work out the woman is the only one who have made the sacrifices, and will be the one left to pick up the pieces.

The only solution that I see for this is to make this one of the first questions that you bring up with a sister. There is no need to waist your time if the sister is not willing to move where you are. 

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